What do you do when you've said, "no"to the same person so many times that you feel like a new approach is needed, like I'll get back to you, or say something that's not true- I did that or whatever when you haven't done anything at all. Or you could try being honest and say I'm never going to say yes or do that thing that you keep asking me about, not going to happen in this lifetime. I wish that everything in life would be as straight forward as making a salad, especially a salad that could be made ahead of time and brought to a potluck in a beautiful handmade pottery bowl. Should you tell people at the potluck that you made the bowl yourself? In your pottery studio overlooking the Pacific Ocean ?? Probably should draw a line on that one, I don't know, maybe you could give it a try. Or you could share that you made up the recipe while doing brain surgery. Might be a good way to make some crazy new friends because the people you know alre...